Most people are outraged upon hearing this question. "What do you mean, Who is your god?" they ask. My God is the Creator of the heaven and the earth." And most of these people will be shocked to find out that their proclamation that their god is the Creator of the heaven and the earth is no more than lip service, and that they are in fact destined for Hell (12:106)
YOUR GOD IS WHOEVER OR WHATEVER OCCUPIES YOUR MIND MOST OF THE TIME.
Your god can be your children (7:190), your spouse (9:24), your business (18:35), or your ego (25:43). This is why we note that one of the most important and most repeated commandments in the Quran is : " O you who believe, you shall remember God frequently; glorify Him day and night." 33:41
To put this commandment into practice, we must establish certain habits whereby we guarantee that God occupies our minds more than anything else. The Quran helps us establish such soul saving habits:
(1) The Contact Prayers (Salat): those who observe
the 5 daily prayers come a long way towards commemorating
God a significant proportion of their waking hours. Salat helps us remember
God not only during the few minutes of prayer,
but also throughout the times of anticipation. At 11:00 Am, one may look
at his or her watch to see if the noon prayer
is due yet. This act causes one to think about God , and one is
credited accordingly (20:14)
(2) Commemorate God before eating: Verse 6:121 enjoins us to mention God's name before we eat: "You shall not eat from that upon which God's name has not been mentioned."
(3) God Willing (IN SHAA ALLAH): in 18:24, "You shall not say, 'I will do this or that tomorrow,' without saying, 'God willing'(IN SHAA ALLAH). If you forget to do this, then apologize and say, 'May my Lord guide me to do better next time.'" 18:24
(4) God's Gift (MAA SHAA ALLAH): To invoke God's protection for our beloved objects-our children, our cars, our homes, etc.-we enjoined in 18:39 to say "MAA SHAA ALLAH" (This is God's gift.)
(5) Glorify God day and night : When we eat anything,
we should not be like animals, we must reflect on God's
creation of the food we are eating-the flavor, our enjoyment due to the
senses God has given us, the perfect packaging
of the banana or the orange, the varieties of sea foods created by God,
etc.- and glorify
Him as we enjoy His provisions. When we see a
beautiful flower, or animal, or sunsets, we must glorify God. We
must seize every possible opportunity to remember and glorify God, so that
God may be our God.
(6) First Utterance : Make it a habit to say : "In the name of God, Most Gracious, Most Merciful. There is no god besides God," the moment you wake up every morning. Make it a habit to say "In the name of God, Most gracious, Most Merciful" before starting any chore.
"..........and the men who COMMEMORATE God FREQUENTLY, and the COMMEMORATING women; God has prepared for them forgiveness and a great recompense." 33:35
"You shall REMEMBER Me, that I may remember you,
and be thankful to Me; do not be unappreciative"
"Once you complete your Contact Prayers (Salat),
you shall REMEMBER God while standing, sitting, or lying down............"
4:103
"Once the prayer (Friday prayer) is completed,
you may spread through the land to seek God's bounties, and continue
to REMEMBER God FREQUENTLY, that you may succeed." 63:10